5 Signs Someone Is Lying To You........
I get it folk's everyone has been lied to and everyone has lied before to somebody in our lives. Whether it's a small seemingly small lie such as 'yes Santa Clause is real. That he flies all over the world and drops off presents to the children that were on his good list. To lies of infidelity, cheating, breaking of the law. Now is there any difference between the two is one lie better than the other or maybe onem is not as bad as the other. Right? Wrong a lie is a lie is a lie no matter the reason for it. Why do people lie? Well 9 out of 10 times we because we either did something thatn we know that we were not supposed to or we did not do something that we were supposed to do. That's it folk's that is the sum of it. Those are the reasons why we lie. You will excuses for lying such as. "I lied to you because I didn't want to hurt you". That is bullshit.. The other person's feelings are not why you lied. You lied because your a coward you were afraid that if you told the truth that person would not like you anymore or become angry with you. That is incredibly selfish. Your own feelings were what you were trying to protect. There are no reason why we should be lying. Even if you did something wrong or you made a mistake it is harder for us to tell the truth than it is to lie. Words like my bad, I'm sorry, takes courage first you have to understand that we are only human and prone to making mistakes. Me, you, and check this out even the person that we are lying too. You will also find out if you haven't already that the the lie in most cases are worse than the infraction that we just did. No one likes to be lied to in a sense subconsciously your telling the person that we are lying to that I am beneath you, you are so much better and greater than I am. That I most likely to you. Personally I do not want to be around some one that only lies to me. Masked as telling me only what they think that I want to hear. Fuck that I prefer to be around someone that has the courage to tell me exactly what it is. With no sugar coating. A liar can not be trusted. Well how can we tell if someone is lying to you. Well as per the title here are 5 Signs that someone is lying to you.
1. There stories will always contradict themselves they will speak so adamant about something and and there actions will just not add up. They will always say one thing but when confronted will say they meant something. There stories will never be the same. Lies always change the truth doesn't.
2. Eye contact unless a professional liar the liar will find it hard to maintain eye contact for a period of time often the liar can't believe that you are actually believing what there saying so they will purposely divert eye contact.
3. The story will just not make any sense at all. The story will change from "that is not what I said" " I said something else" you will drive yourself crazy trying to keep up or make sense of trying to get the truth often times you will tire yourself out or just plain give up..
4. A liar will draw out in detail something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and go into a great detail. And when asked "what the fuck" they will tell you hold on and go deeper into the bullshit. There hope is to lose you along the way. And they will claim after you saying " what the fuck does that have to do with anything" there response more than likely will be. " if you would just let me finish and will try there best to get just as angry if not angrier than you are.
5. Liars will get angry when they are the ones that committed the offense. They will try and spin it around to try and make it your fault. You will hear shit like " it's your fault that I lied to you" or "you made me lie to you".
Well there you have it folks 5 Signs that your talking to a liar. But here's the message I want you to take with you. It is everyones god given right to lie it is there choice. Don't be offended don't take it personal your going to have to make a choice either to remove this person from your life or to deal with it. No matter what you choose do not argue with them please please do not go down the rabbit whole with them because remember a lie is just what it is a lie. It's not real so do waste a second of energy on something toxic or as negative just acknowledge in your mind that it is a lie. You do not have to address lies. Please do not waste your time.
Thank you for sharing your time with us I hope it helps someone somewhere that is dealing with a liar.( We all are at some point). We love you Skok International. Where we are changing the world by changing ourselves. Please don't forget to follow and like. Until next time.
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