YOUR GOING TO HAVE TO GET IT CONTROL.........

Hello everyone it's your favorite person in the whole wide world. Legend Fleurinord from Skok International where we are changing the world by changing ourselves.

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           Now the control that I'm talking about is not what you guys are probably thinking about. Not the physical control and definitely not the other person. What we are going to have to get in control is us. We're going to have to control our emotions. Yup "the E word". If we even are attempting to try to grab hold of that so elusive thing we call success. We are going to have control our emotions. I'm going to tell you why it's so important to be able to control our emotions, but before I do I want to mention that thing we call success is a very huge thing to attempt to obtain. Not everyone who attempts success actually make it. There is only 1% of the entire world that truly have masterd what it is to have succes. Success is not how much money or how big your house is or how many cars you have in the drive

way. Success is achieving what it is that we are after. Now some people success to them is just to raise healthy strong children and get them off to college and married. To them that is the definition of success. And there is nothing wrong with that at all. To some people success IS the big house the cars and the houses. I have to be honest folk's being able to afford those things is to me definitely what success means to me helping people in a positive way and changing the world really is my drive it's what motivates me. Being financial independent. Is my idea of what success is.  But anyways back to controling our emotions. I hope I don't lose anyone with the next thing that Im going to write there are 2 ways we struggle with our emotions there are is us "getting our emotions in control. Which means that if we are" controling our emotions" we are not in control of our emotions at the moment that we are controling our emotions quite possibly there is something causing us to feel a certain type of way. Where we need to be is in control of our emotions not battling with them at the time of whatever is it that's got us in our feelings. One way of doing that is to know or to know to the best of your ability know what the situation is more than likely going to be. We analyze it know who we are going to see who's all going to be present where we are going to be at. And have an understanding of what might or might not happen where we're going. A man or woman who is not in control of there emotions is weak. Now we all get surprised with shit. I get it. Right when we think we have seen it all and nothing can surprise us. Guess what. Something happens and we realize we haven't seen shit yet and surprises us.. In relationships when a man or woman is discussing something and either he or she is screaming and yelling being belligerent almost is if there about to explode. Weakness, insecurities, fear, is what the energy that is being put out there is. It took a while and a lot of practice and a lot fucking up. To finally be at the point where nothing to much bothers me. I've accepted people as they are and when I step outside in the world I realize and fully understand that I do not own the world, I can not control anyone I can not change anyone I am not in control of anything that goes on around me the only thing that  I am in control of is how I react to what's going on around me. At this point of my life I don't even raise my voice. I feel (and this is just me if I have to raise my voice Ive lost control) So controlling your emotions is a good thing but being in control is even better. Let's say if your arguing with someone trust me there is no better way to win that argument by not arguing with that person and will bother that person even more so that your so cool and collected no don't get me wrong under the surface you can feel like you want to rip that person's head off but control it. Trust me no good comes out of losing control. You can not really trust your feelings because feelings change so often. You can wake up angry be happy by noon confused by 2 pm in love by 4 pm out of love by 7:30pm and by the time you go back to bed again your back to being angry again. Imagine if you based all of the decisions that you made that day based on how you felt. If you were in buisness it would be disastrous. If you were married somebody might be calling an attorney by now. I've learned from study really successful people and one of the things I've learned is that they are so hard to read there emotions. Trust me from personal experience it's going to take time. So if you are not in control of your emotions right but you want to be in the future. Your going to have to start now. Not now as in now but. But now as in right now. I love you folks. We are changing the world. 

      Trust me folks this is the worst part of writing for you is when I have to stop. Thank you on behalf of skok International. Where we are changing the world by changing ourselves. Just a small reminder to please like and give.us a follow. Legend Fleurinord till next time.